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Mary Edna
Searcy Barnes
Dec 7, 1928 — Feb 16, 2023
Mary Edna (Searcy) Barnes entered into the presence of her Lord and Savior on
Thursday, February 16, at the age of 94.
She was a loving and devoted wife, mother, Gammie, sister, aunt, and friend. She
loved fiercely and was the epitome of joy, humor, and optimism. She exuded a positive
attitude that drew people to her. Even while ravaged by dementia, she was kind, joyful
and navigated her long goodbye with grace and courage.
Mary Edna Searcy was born on December 7, 1928, in Alpine, Alabama as the youngest
child of Henry T. and Annie Hayes Searcy. Losing her father as an infant, she grew up
assisting with farm chores like milking cows and plowing fields. She never found a task
she could not conquer. She would go on to graduate from Winterboro High School
where she would cheer, hold leadership in clubs, and be considered "The Wittiest".
There she would meet the love of her life, Dan Barnes. They met at a Plantersville
dance, married in1947 and continued to dance together for 63 years.
In 1954 she and Dan moved to Gresham Park in Atlanta, GA where he was a teacher
and she was a dedicated mother to two daughters. Actively, working and volunteering in
her beloved Gresham Park community. She had the gift of hospitality and worked for
Welcome Wagon greeting new homeowners. She was a founding member the Gresham
Park Boating Club, still thriving at Clark Hill Lake.
Mary Edna was proficient in anything that she attempted to do from working in a sewing
factory during wartime, to leading Life and Casualty Insurance Company in sales as the
company's first female salesperson. She was a creative seamstress and kept her two
daughters well frocked in one of a kind clothing and gowns that she designed and
stitched. Her artistic abilities did not stop at sewing and designing. When she felt the
insurance sales role was taking too much time away from her daughters' needs at
home, she put her creative skills to work on cake decorating and catering. Mary was an
amazing baker and cook and was awarded early on for her infamous Coconut Cake
recipe published in the Atlanta Constitution. This was the catalyst to her wedding and all
occasion cake decorating venture. She was deemed Grandma Funny-cakes by her
grandson's college Lacrosse team.
She worked as an attendance secretary for Cedar Grove High School, then retired from
the DeKalb County School System and then she and Dan moved back to Talladega.
During her lifetime she loved music and singing. She encouraged her children and
grandchildren to sing and perform. She was always a performers greatest fan. She sang
in the choirs of Hepzibah Baptist, Bethel UMC, and First Baptist in Talladega and Asbury
UMC, and Mount Carmel Christian, in Atlanta. In her final years music and song was the
integral thread to unlock her memories.
She is preceded in death by her husband, Daniel H. Barnes, her parents Henry T. and Annie Hayes Searcy, sisters Sarah Sherrill (Clyde) and Margaret Hall (Milton), brothers Hayes Searcy (Carolyn) and Henry T. Searcy, Jr (Inez). Those she left behind to carry on her legacy of love are her daughters, Sharon (David) Bockmon of Roswell and Dana (Dale) Westhoff of NY, New York. She is also survived by her grandsons, Trey Monroe of Atlanta and Keaton Monroe (Delaney) and great- granddaughter Harper Kaye of Austin TX, granddaughters Ruby and Clio Westhoff of New York, and numerous nieces and nephews, whom she loved dearly.
A Celebration of Life service, will be Thursday, February 23rd at Marietta Funeral Home.
915 Piedmont Road
Marietta, GA 30066
11:00-12:00 visitation
12:00-1:00 reception/ lunch for family and friends
1:00-2:00 Celebration Service
Graveside Burial service will be 11:00 CST, Friday February 24:
Hepzibah Cemetery 5329 Renfroe Rd.
Talladega, Alabama
Although flowers will be accepted, donations to the
Alzheimer's Association
will be
appreciated.
Thursday
Marietta Funeral Home
11:00 am - 12:00 pm
Thursday
Marietta Funeral Home
Starts at 1:00 pm
Friday
Hepzibah Cemetery
Starts at 11:00 am
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